Place your warm, oiled hands on your partners back. Slide them around using a nice firm pressure. Make your every movement firm and slow. Start off by giving them long steady strokes up and down their back. Then focus your massage on their upper back. Work all around their shoulders and neck. Inch your way down to their lower back and knead the small of their back. Remember to apply more oil or lotion if it's needed.

Then continue the relaxing and sensual massage by rubbing and kneading your partner's buttocks. Slide your hands firmly down each of their legs, one at a time. It feels great to receive a calf massage, and if you want to be a little more suggestive, slide your hands back up their leg focusing on their inner thighs. Don't touch it yet, you don't want to rush into a genital massage. Let them enjoy the relaxing sensual massage. If you want to excite them sexually, just use your words for now. Be a bit of a tease, you have plenty of time to take things to the next level.

Remember to talk to each other while the sensual massage is in process. You don't want your partner to fall asleep before you get to the good stuff. Like I said in the previous paragraph, use your words to excite your lover. Keep them awake by whispering "this is turning me on" or something similar.

Giving An Erotic Massage

When you're ready to get naughty, have your partner flip over so that they're lying on their back. If you're performing your sensual massage on a man, he'll probably be erect by the time you're ready to flip him over. In any case, the both of you should be pretty excited by now.

Massage your way up from their ankles, rub their legs, up their thighs and lightly brush against their genitals. Slide your hands up to their chest and massage her breasts or his chest muscles. Slide your hands down the sides of their throat and across their breast bone.

Work your way slowly back down to their genitals. By now they should be longing for you to touch them down there. Read our masturbation techniques article for ideas on where to go from here. Also try prostate massage for men.

Caress, stroke and massage your partner's genitals. Masturbate them with lots of lubricant for a slippery erotic genital massage.

When they climax, you can either continue with the relaxing massage, clean up and cuddle, or have sexual intercourse. This is a good option if your partner hasn't climaxed or if you're not ready to end the sexual pleasure.

Final Notes On Sensual & Erotic Massages

Remember the main points of this article: set a romantic and relaxing atmosphere, use firm and stimulating pressure, and excite your lover's mind while performing the massage. And always enjoy pleasing your partner.

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