Giving An Erotic & Sensual Massage

Giving your partner a sensual massage is extremely satisfying, not just for them but also for you.  Sexy erotic massages are a good way for you to pleasure your partner, and when you're done they can return the favor.  It's also a great foreplay idea.

Preparing for a sensual massage

Set the mood by dimming the lights, maybe setting some candles, and playing soft music.  Make sure the room is a comfortable temperature for your nude partner - you don't want them to freeze while you're trying to give them a soft sensual massage!  You might also want to disconnect your phones or turn off your cell phones to prevent interruptions.

If you want, you can use a massage table. You may find that it needs extra padding under bony areas or under areas like the knees or ankles.

A better idea is to use your bed. Lay a towel or thick sheet down first, so that you don't get oils everywhere. Instead of standing up above your partner, you can straddle their body, or sit to the side of them. Giving a massage on a bed is surprisingly comfortable.

Materials - Massage Oils, Lotions, and Lubricants

Before you start with the erotic massage or sensual massage, gather your materials. You'll want to use a light oil like grapeseed oil or a special massage oil for the sensual massage, and a water-based lubricant (we like Astroglide ) for the genital erotic massage.

When choosing a massage product or lubricant for sensual massage, keep in mind that it will be difficult and messy to work with a bottle that has a screw-off cap. Look for flip-top caps instead. Avoid lubricants that contain spermicide, as these will most likely irritate your partner's skin.

Put all your massage oils, lotions, lubricants, and whatever other supplies you need on a table next to you. Keep it close to the bed or massage table so that you can smoothly get more oils or lotions when necessary.

Giving The Massage

When you're ready, have your lover take off all their clothes and lay face down on the bed. Squeeze some massage oil into your hands and rub your hands together to heat the product up. Nothing ruins a good massage like the shocking feeling of cold liquid. You can also try a warming massage lotion, which might be more convenient.

Another idea you can try is to fill a bowl with water and microwave it for 45 seconds to 1 1/2 minutes. When the water is a nice and warm, place your bottles in the bowl to warm them up.