Average Penis Size - Is That What Women Want?

Many men are insecure about their penis size.  If you're a man reading this, you may be one of the millions who wish you were bigger.  Well think about this for a second; who says bigger is better?  That's right... mostly men do, not most women.

Rest assured that most women are perfectly happy with an average penis size.  In fact, the bigger you are, the more likely it is that you'll end up hurting her.

Check out these statistics

• Average Erect Penis Length: 5 Inches - 6.25 Inches.
• Average Erect Penis Girth: About 4.8 Inches
• See more penis size statistics here

• Average Vagina Length: About 6 Inches

What does what do these numbers mean?  If you penis size is above average in length, you'll probably hit her cervix (or as they say here in Hawaii "hit reef"), which is something you don't want to do. It's a very unpleasant feeling - for the both of you.

So what if you still feel like you want a bigger penis?  After all, you are a man and men like their things to be BIG.  Read our article about penis enlargement .

If you find that penis enlargers aren't for you or aren't giving you the results you hoped for, you can do her a favor and slip on a penis extension. A few extra inches might just be the answer.

Or even better; you can pleasure her in other ways.  Get creative with your tongue, your lips, your fingers, etc. Trust me, she won't mind if you make her cum with your tongue instead of your penis (which doesn't happen to often anyway). You can also use a sex toy like these beautiful, ultra-safe glass dildos on her... very exciting.

Now let's consider the other side of the coin... what if you're too big? Well congratulations, your penis will be the envy of all your guy friends!

On a more serious note, here are some ideas about how you can reduce the pain during sex if your penis is too big.

Important: Get her really aroused before you have intercourse.  This is a must, each and every time.  When a woman is aroused, her vaginal canal will lengthen and be a bit more accommodating for your large penis.  Depending on how big your penis is and how deep/shallow she is, this alone could solve all your sex problems or you might find that you need even more help.  When she's turned-on her vagina will also be less sensitive to pain and will lubricate to make sex much more comfortable.

If you're still hitting her cervix even after she's really aroused, you'll find that experimenting with your positions is the best choice.  Have her lay on her back and keep her legs together.  You climb on top of her body (just like normal missionary style) and enter her from above.  You'll notice that you can't go in as deep as you usually do, which should prevent cervix bumping.  Bonus: she'll feel super-tight to you and you'll feel really thick to her.

And if you're penis is too thick?  Use a super-slippery lubricant and enter her slowly.  She might find that "girl-on-top" is the best position for her because she can control the speed, depth, and angle.

Hopefully we've cleared up some misconceptions about penis size and what women really want.

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