Lingam Massage - Tantric Penis Massage

What exactly is a lingam massage?  The lingam is a Danskrit word meaning "wand of light" which refers to his penis.  This is a wonderful massage that allows a man to just relax and receive sexual pleasure.  There is no pressure on him to perform.

Before you start, read our tantric massage article.

This is different from masturbating a man. Here we'll actually be learning how to give him a lingam massage without trying to induce orgasm. He will experience a completely different type of pleasure than what he's accustomed to.

Everything about this massage is relaxed and sensual, yet satisfies him sexually in a manner he's not used to.

If you're continuing from our tantric massage article, he should already by on his back.  Now you should place a pillow under his head/neck so that he can watch you and get a good view of his lingam, and under his hips.  Spread his legs and have him bend his knees slightly. You might also want to add towels or pillows under his knees and ankles.  His entire genital region should be completely exposed.

Use a good water-based lubricant now.  Massage his pubic bone gently and lubricate his entire penis and scrotum.  Massage his testicles carefully, making sure not to hurt him.  Remember to do everything slowly.

Grab and gently squeeze his lingam with one hand and massage his perineum with the other.  Gradually increase the pressure you apply to his perineum.  Slide your hands slowly from the tip of his lingam down to the base, followed by the other hand.  Also try it the other way, sliding your hands up from the base.

Grab the shaft of his lingam, and use the other hand to massage the head.  Press your palm on the head and slide in circles around it.  Observe his reaction, and lighten up if he seems uncomfortable.

You can massage his perineum at any time during these techniques.  In fact, it's highly recomended.

The techniques described above, are somewhat similiar to our masturbation techniques, but there are some key differences that you must always remember to keep in mind:

• Both of you are breathing in deeply through your diaphragm.
• You're moving much slower than you usually do during masturbation.
• You're stimulating his root chakra, which helps a great deal to distribute the newly enhanced sexual energy.

You may find while doing a lingam massage, that he might get soft, then hard, soft, then hard.  This is sometimes referred to as "riding the wave" and it's nothing to worry about.  In fact, it's quite pleasurable and desirable.

Remember that the goal of a lingam massage is not orgasm (although it may happen.)  So you may wish to make love after the complete tantric massage or enjoy some time resting and relaxing.  Be sure to let him return the favor!

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