Spiritual, Emotional & Intellectual Foreplay

There's more to foreplay than just touching.  Using your minds for intellectual foreplay and using your hearts to make a genuine emotional connection can lead to some of the hottest sex you've ever had.  This can only be accomplished with someone you truly care about, so don't even try it with a casual fling.

This type of foreplay activity can be done anywhere.  It extends beyond the bedroom and can change your whole relationship if you let it.  It's all about communication and mutual satisfaction.

Spiritual, emotional & intellectual foreplay is more than just a foreplay activity.  You can do it all day and never get tires.  And it's actually pretty simple to do.  Here's how:

1. Communicate - Be open, honest, and actually listen to your partner.
2. Understand - You're not going to agree with everything they say, but at least try to understand where they're coming from. This can make a big difference in your relationship.
3. Appreciate - Look them in the eye and let them know you're genuinely thankful to be with them.
4. Make your lover feel really good - Give compliments, be proud of them & do favors without expecting anything back.

Now some of you may be thinking that this spiritual, emotional and intellectual foreplay stuff doesn't sound too sexy.  Actually it is.  Try my ideas on your wife for a week, and you'll notice that she's probably a lot hornier for you.

Simple words can make a person feel great about themselves.  Don't underestimate flattery.  Tell your lover that he/she is beautiful/handsome and you're proud to be seen with them.  Tell them that you're so glad the two of you ended up together, or you love how smart and caring they are.  Even "wow, you're penis looks huge today" can make a big difference in how your partner feels about themselves and your relationship.

It also helps to keep your lover thinking about you when you're not around.  Slip your panties into his briefcase before he goes to work for a sexy surprise.  Or stick a new picture of yourself in their purse of wallet.  One of my favorite foreplay ideas is to call him up when he's on his way home and list all the sexy things I want to do to him when he walks in the door.  This kind of intellectual foreplay preps the mind which happens to be a powerful sex organ.

Your spiritual, emotional & intellectual foreplay ideas don't all have to be spoken. Some nice gestures that include touching are:

• A full body massage - or just a back massage, foot massage, etc.
• Slowly brushing your lover's hair - there's lots of nerve endings on the scalp so it feels surprisingly good to have your lover paying attention to your hair
• Shaving his face - works best with candles and soft music
• Stretching her muscles for her- think legs up in the air and lots of bending!

I encourage you to make a real effort to be more romantic with your partner.  The sex will definitely get better when the two of you make an emotional connection and engage in intellectual foreplay.

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Best of all, it's easier than you think to incorporate into your life.  Even a simple dinner and a movie date can be intellectual foreplay if you treat it like a special event.  Don't let the extra effort scare you away.  I promise you it will make a big difference if both partners give it their all.

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