How To Stimulate The Prostate Gland With Prostate Massage

You can do a prostate massage on yourself, or have your lover do it for you for some pretty hot climaxes .  Learn how to stimulate the prostate to intensify your orgasms!

This pleasure zone is a widely under-used orgasm booster for a man.  This gland can be found under the bladder and in front of the rectum. The highly arousing sensations produced upon stimulation make this a great area to explore.

Here are some tips to help you get the most prostate pleasure out of your experience.

You can how to stimulate the prostate by yourself, or have a partner help you.  If this is your first time you might feel more comfortable doing this alone.  This way you can gauge your feelings about it without pressure from anyone else.  If this isn’t your first time, you’ll probably enjoy yourself more if your lover helps you or if you use a sex toy.

While learning how to stimulate the prostate, make sure you’re relaxed.  You may want to have a drink or meditate for a few minutes.  Relaxation is especially important if this is your first time experiencing anal penetration.

After you’re good and ready, engage in foreplay with your partner.  If you're alone, just think sexy thoughts and try to get as aroused as possible. Set the mood and use lots of lubricant.  A numbing lubricant will make insertion easier.  Try Anal Eaze for this purpose.  It may be a good idea to masturbate or have your partner pleasure you first.  When you're ready, lay on your back and have your partner insert their index finger into your anus, with their palm facing up. It should go in about 2 inches.  Tell them to curl their finger forward making a soft come hither motion.

If you’re going at it alone you’ll have to reach between your legs and try to reach the prostate yourself.  If you like the feeling, keep going, gradually increasing pressure.  Certain adult toys make this much easier because of the extra length and flexibility.

Women’s g-spot toys like this one work well for prostate pleasure.

When using a women's g spot toy, you do need to take some precautions.  Make sure you slip a condom over the toy if you’re going to be using your girlfriend’s vibrator or dildo.  Clean the toy thoroughly before and after you use it.

Pick toys with a wide base, such as harness toys so that it doesn’t get stuck in your rectum.  I’ve heard stories of people ending up in the emergency room because dildos or light bulbs slipped in and wouldn’t come out.  Speaking of light bulbs… don’t use them or anything that wasn’t designed for sex play.  Using common household objects can be very dangerous so stick with toys specifically designed for insertion.

When you near orgasm, increase the pressure.  This will vastly intensify your orgasm and leave you shivering with pleasure.  If you’re using anal beads, insert them before you start and when you near orgasm, pull them out one by one.  It should have almost the same effect.

There, you've learned how to stimulate the prostate gland!  Remember to try this only if you’re ready.  Prostate massage can do wonders for your climax, but only if you’re comfortable with it.  Take it slow and gradually increase your anal exploration.  And remember to have fun!

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