How To Give An Orgasm To A Woman

So, you want to know how to give an orgasm to a woman? Women's orgasms can be a little confusing. Some women have them all the time, some have them sometimes, and some unlucky women have never had one!

What should you do to make sure she reaches climax when she's with you? First of all, find out if she's ever had one before. If she's never had one yet, she should read our article: How To Get An Orgasm .

A man can't be solely responsible for bringing a woman to climax. It requires conditions of her body and mind.  If you're making a genuine effort to satisfy her then you can't be blamed for not making her cum.

Get familiar with her body. Check our anatomy article and learn where all her hot spots are. It's important for you to put a lot of focus on her clitoris and g-spot since these are the main orgasm inducers. Both of these spots are great for giving her finger orgasms.

If she has had an orgasm before, ask her to tell you exactly what she likes in detail. Maybe she'll even be willing to let you watch how she gets herself off. This way you can see up close how to give an orgasm to her.

Some women can orgasm only when they're masturbating. There could be various reasons for this. It could be that she's the only one who knows where to touch, and how to touch it. Or maybe it's because she feels uncomfortable making her scrunched up orgasm face in front of you. You have to figure out the reason that she can only come through masturbation, and then try to fix it.

You're probably a lot more comfortable with yourself than she is. Women have a lot going on in their minds and this can actually inhibit orgasms. Your wife or girlfriend probably has thoughts like "Do I look fat in this angle?" or "I feel stupid doing this" running through her mind when you're getting intimate. Fix these problems by letting her know that you find every single inch of her body attractive, that she's beautiful, and you love being with her. Don't just say it when you want to get some... say it all the time so she understands that you really mean it.

Bond with her emotionally before sex so that she'll feel closer to you. This will lead to increased comfort and intimacy. Then, bond even more by appreciating her after sex too. Cuddle and talk with her after making love so she knows you really enjoy making her feel good.

And don't forget foreplay! This is one of the most important factors of a good orgasm. Men can get everything over and done with in a matter of minutes, but most women require at least half an hour of foreplay and sex to reach climax. Learn how she likes cunnilingus and do it to her the way she likes.  This alone may cause her to go over the edge.  Many women need clit stimulation in order to reach the big O, so remember that when you're performing oral on her.

Don't pressure her by even hinting that you expect her to climax when you perform. Remember to fill her mind only with positive and sexy thoughts. Don't give her any reasons to worry or stress over anything.

These are the best techniques you'll find on how to give an orgasm to a woman. Please be patient with her and put all your effort into making her feel good. Before you know it, you'll know all about women's orgasms and how to give them! Good luck!

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