How To Find The Clitoris... The Sexy Treasure Hunt

Do you know how to find the clitoris?  If you don't yet know you've been missing out!  Luckily we're here to help.  The clit is one of the most sensitive parts of a woman's vagina, so you should definitely learn all you can about it.  In this article we'll teach you how to find the clit and the different parts of it.

Women's vaginas come in many different shapes, sizes, and colors.  This can lead to some confusion when trying to learn how to find the clitoris. Study a picture of a woman's vulva if you have one so you know basically what's down there.  We will be putting a section on sexual anatomy up on our website so you can reference that when it's available.

Keep that picture in mind when you're ready to look for the special love button on your wife or girlfriend.  Learning how to find the clitoris will be easier if you start off with foreplay.  When a woman becomes aroused, blood flow increases and her clit may become swollen and erect.

Spread her legs and examine her vagina in good lighting.  Get familiar with how things look down there.  Starting at the top and working your way down, you'll see her pubic hair, pubic mound, clitoris or clitoral hood, the inner and outer labia, vagina, perineum, and anus.

Her clit probably looks a little like a point centered at the top of her vagina.  The easiest way to find it is to identify her inner lips first and look at where they join together at the top. They connect directly to her clit. There, you've learned exactly how to find the clitoris on any woman!

However, all vaginas are different, and some women have a very small clitoris that might be hard to locate.  If you're still having trouble, ask her to point it out to you.

For the most part, when you see the word clitoris in this site, I am referring to the whole thing: gland, shaft & hood. Here we'll learn about each of these parts separately.

The clitoris is a small sensitive gland.  It's usually covered by soft skin to protect it from friction.  This is called the clitoral hood.  What you see when looking straight at a woman's vagina is most likely the hood covering her clit. The actual clitoris gland is hidden inside of that skin.

Grasp the clitoral hood between your thumb and forefinger if it's big enough.  You may be able to feel her clitoris gland inside of the hood.  If she's aroused, it may be erect and you'll feel the hardness between your fingers.

Also try placing a finger on top of her clitoral hood and attempt to "feel through" the skin of the hood and locate her clitoris.  It will feel like a little bump covered with loose skin. If her clit is really small, you might not be able to feel it at all.

Try placing a finger lightly on her clitoral hood and sliding it up towards her body so that you can see the actual clitoris gland inside.  This is not possible on all women since some having very tight clitoral hoods, but in most cases you'll be able to slide the hood up enough to see it.

Some women will enjoy having their actual clitoral gland stimulated, but others will find it too painful or uncomfortable.  Experiment but be gentle.  The majority of women find that stimulation through the clitoral hood is more than enough.  Some women can't even handle that so it's up to you to gauge how she likes it.

You can try to learning how to stimulate the clitoris by experimenting with stroking, massages, and oral sex after you learn how to find the clitoris. Click here to read some of our ideas about stimulating the clitoris.

Learning how to find the clitoris may take some time, but it's important if you value her pleasure.  The clit is responsible for the most female orgasms so don't neglect it!  Learn how to find the clitoris and pleasure it correctly.

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