How To Deep Throat - Advanced Oral Instructions

Learning how to deep throat a penis takes a lot of practice and patience.  This should only be attempted by those who are experienced with giving fellatio.  If you need a refresher, review our blow job how to's first.

Before you attempt deep throat a man, take a little time to practice by yourself first.  A dildo will work well. If you learn to deep throat with a dildo, he won't have to witness your potentially embarrassing learning process (there could be A LOT of gagging!)

Anyway, here are the instructions on how to deep throat:

The first thing to think about is breathing.  How will you breathe with a penis jammed in your throat?  Plan to take a deep breath just before you attempt to slide him down your throat.  When you learn how to deep throat, you'll have to breathe in when his penis comes out.

Positioning is important.  Get into a position where the receiver is on his back, and the giver is on their stomach (on top of the receiver, or just off to the side).  Point his penis downward into your mouth.  Get it very wet and very slippery.  When learning to deep throat, it's very important that his penis be well lubricated.

Start giving him oral sex.  Tilt your head back so that your throat makes as straight a line as possible.  It's difficult to get the penis to bend to the curve of your throat, so straighten your throat instead.

Stick your tongue out (which will make your tongue thinner) and try to force your throat open.  Forcing your throat open takes some practice.  Open your throat as if you're yawning.

When your throat has been opened, slide the penis as far into your throat as you can.  If you feel like gagging, just stop and keep his penis there.  Pull it out if you do start to gag.  However, if you don't start gagging it's better to let the feeling pass and try sliding it in again.  Do this over and over until you get it.

You'll notice that your throat will seem to "block" his penis as you try to get it in.  In this case, you'll have to use a little force to push it in.  Once it gets in, you have bypassed your gag reflex and no longer have to worry about it.

This can only happen with your commitment to practice.  It's not a natural act at all, so you'll really have to put all your effort into making it happen.  This is something to practice alone or with a patient partner.  Trying to practice on an impatient man might frustrate him because he wants to penetrate your throat quickly.  Make sure that you practice with someone who allows you to take your time, or else practice alone.

If you need a little extra help, try our super slippery lubricants to help it slide in more easily.  You can also try a desensitizing throat spray like Axon. We reccomend you read our article about overcoming your gag reflex before trying to deep throat.

When you're accustomed to it, and know exactly how to deep throat, you can try a new position.  Lie on your bed and hang your head off the edge.  Your partner will insert and thrust his penis into your mouth and throat, watching your neck bulge when you deep throat.  This position isn't for everyone.  It requires complete trust and an understanding partner.  Don't try this with a man who might ignore your signals and keep thrusting even if you're gagging and choking.

Now you know instructions on how to deep throat, but you'll only be able to do it with practice.  I'm warning you that learning to deep throat will take a while, but don't give up.  Just think positive and get lots of practice!

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