French Kiss Tips & Tongue Kissing Techniques

This article is full of hot french kiss tips and tongue kissing techniques.  We'll teach you the fundamentals of french kissing.  Everyone (no matter how experienced) should read this article and review the information here, just as a reminder.

The first and most basic of our french kissing tips: Before you kiss, make sure your mouth is moist but not flooded.  If your mouth feels dry, take a little sip of water or move your tongue around.  If it's wet, swallow your spit first.  Keeping your mouth just moist enough makes for a more pleasurable experience.

Start slow.  First kiss your partner using just your lips.  When the time is right, slowly open your mouth.  Your partner should get the hint and open their mouth too.  If for some reason they don't take the hint, insert just the very tip of your tongue between their lips.  JUST THE TIP!  Please don't jam your tongue into their mouth like some kind of forceful crazed animal. 

Now use your tongue to lightly lick your lover's.  Do not tense your tongue, keep it soft but slighty firm.  Swirl your tongues around in circles.  You can also flick the tips of your tongues against each other.  Do what feels right and notice the feedback your partner's giving you.  If they're really into it, you're probably doing something right!

Now listen closely, because this is an important one of our french kiss tips: French kissing doesn't need to involve your tongue the whole time. Feel free to just kiss each other's lips and return to tongue kissing later.  Sticking your tongue out and moving it the whole time can get tiresome and boring after awhile.  Remember that variety is the spice of life!

Pay attention to what you're kissing partner is doing.  Watch for any signals they may be giving you.  If they're closing their mouth, close yours too and give them a sensual closed-mouth kiss.  This is a nice way to end the french kiss.

Try to control how much saliva you're producing.  When using your tongue to kiss, things will need to be a little wet.  But you can probably imagine how gross it would feel to have a bunch of someone else's saliva in your mouth, so don't do it to your partner.  Swallow regularly to prevent saliva build up.  This requires a little bit of coordination, so practice it. 

What should you do if you do find a big pool of spit in your mouth?  You'll need to swallow so that the saliva doesn't start dripping out of your mouth, which happens to be really embarrassing.  So how do you swallow without interrupting the makeout session?  Well, take your tongue out of your partner's mouth, and return to lip kissing.  It should be pretty easy to swallow if you close your mouth. You can also kiss their neck or ear, which feels pretty good to them.

If that idea really grosses you out you'll probably have to stop for a little while to spit it out.  It's really nothing to be embarassed about, since half of that drool was probably from your partner anyway.

Try placing your hands on the back of your partner's head while french kissing.  Don't grab their head between your hands and move it around where you want it to go.  Just lightly place your hands there and they should be able to feel your passion. 

Or you can place your hand lightly on your partner's face.  Again, don't grab.   Grabbing will probably scare him/her off, so keep it gentle. Placing your hand on their face is a sign of real passion and it usually comes naturally.

More advanced french kiss tips: Practice rolling waves along your tongue.  This is rather difficult to do, so practice, practice, practice and once you get it right, do it in your partner's mouth!  You can also learn how to tie a cherry stem into a knot or unwrap a candy with just your mouth. It's not guaranteed to make you a better kisser but it sure is impressive.  Brag to your partner about your skills and they'll dream for days about making out with you.

You can find more advanced french kiss tips in our make out tips article.  I'm sure your kissing partner will be impressed. Enjoy!

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